Gordon Showes: I personally dont, but I think its OK to :)It sounds like you love him alot!
Conrad Puleio: For all the answers about women I have that people would call me a "women-basher", I have two traits that warms my heart toward the fairer sex. You just admitted one.The other is when she reaches over and primps some thread off his clothes, or uses her fingers, for example, to set his hair. When I see that at restaurants or on the sidewalk, I envy that man.It makes me feel good when my Mrs. does it to me.I bet you do the same for your big lug of a guy too. :-)...Show more
Sherita Gallati: Yeah >:) His band t-shirts are too comfy.
Tatiana Evanosky: Women are naturally attracted to men who are strong, masculine, and dominant. That's just psychobiology, created by millions of years of human evolution, that causes females to lust after dominant alpha males. But that has nothing to do with being a nice guy or a jerk. You can be very loving and also very ! strong, assertive and commanding in a romantic relationship. It's not niceness that women detest -- it's weakness. The best combination of all, from a woman's view, is a man who is strong and dominant, and also sweet and loving and chivalrous. In other words: those muscular, hunky, daredevil heroes on the covers of romance novels, who come along and powerfully sweep the heroine off her feet, conquer her against her resistance, and lovingly ravish her. Honestly, if guys really want to understand feminine psychology, you can't do much better than read the kind of romance that most women love, which is the traditional bodice-ripper with its powerful romantic heroes. (Or, for a more contemporary example, look at the vampire/human romance between Edward and Bella, in the Twilight series of novels and movies. Part of the reason Bella is so attracted to him is because he's powerful and dangerous; but she loves him because he is truly good and loving at heart. That series is so pop! ular with young women because that kind of man is what most wo! men fantasize about.) The mistake you seem to be making is one that's all too common among guys today: you think in terms of "nice" wussy wimps at one end of the spectrum, versus strong, dominating jerks and "bad boys" who bully women around being at the other end. In reality, women are not interested in either of those. They're interested in what's off on another axis: the dark, mysterious, commanding, romantic hero archetype. The alpha male romantic. But such males are sadly in short supply today. It seems all too many guys line up on the wimp-jerk spectrum. Given that, women will select jerks for sexual attraction, because they are naturally repulsed by weak and wussy wimps. But when they're ready to settle down, then they might "settle" for the wimp, just because they don't want to live forever with a rude jerk. But then she might not be very attracted to the wimpy husband that she settled for. Which is why there are so many complaints from men about their wives having ! no interest in sex. She'll be very interested in sex, if the man would just make himself sexy. That means keeping strong and fit, but also being a strong, dominant, chivalrous lover -- the kind she fantasizes about, even if she won't admit it.___________________________ADD: Stephen, I think maybe you didn't read my whole answer. It's not about being physically attractive. (But I'll add that 155 pounds at 5'11" sounds too skinny to me. Maybe try pumping iron and bulking up a bit?) Mainly it's that MOST WOMEN ARE ATTRACTED TO DOMINANT ALPHA MALES. And it sounds like you are not giving off that dominant vibe at all. You say that you have "no temper" -- which sounds weird and unnatural. It's perfectly normal and natural and good to get mad sometimes; and anyone who says they never get mad would have me thinking there's something very wrong with them -- maybe clinical depression, maybe some other kind of emotional repression, maybe just a cold fish. If you have "no temper" then ! it's likely that you have no real passion either; because if you do hav! e deep passions, then you're gonna get mad sometimes. No temper also implies no aggressive drive at all, and that sounds like you're low on testosterone or something. It's natural (and attractive!) for males to be more aggressive and dominating than females. If you truly have "no temper" then you would have no drive to take on a dominant role with women; you would likely be more passive, maybe even expect the woman to be the driving partner in the romance. And it's just that kind of cold, wimpish passivity that most women are repulsed by. They want men who are strong, passionate, fiery, and dominating. I would suggest that you get some professional counseling, and find out if there is some reason for your passivity and lack of passion. Sorry I can't be any more helpful than that. Good luck, though. ....Show more
Jefferson Sarson: I've always gone for nice guys. The first one I started with at 18. Of course eventually he turned out not so nice but that's what happens. ! He dumped me and it wasn't the best of circumstances though it was civil and we're still friends. BTW I knew him for absolutely years so yeah even the ones you think are nice aren't. And I'm sceptical of self-proclaimed "nice guys" I eman seriously blow your own horn enough?Having no temper can be a bad thing sometimes people just suppress anger I think my ex did thatAnyway if you look for the nice girls you'll find they always want nice guys not jerks. You are probably looking at the female equivalent of a "bad boy" and wondering why they aren't into you...Show more
Billie Bratchett: Like all religious people, they choose which parts of the religion they want to take seriously, which parts they want to follow and which parts to ignore completely.Dismissing parts of the religion doesn't seem to stop anyone from referring to themselves as a member of it.
Susan Rambo: Feminism is a political, anti-family, socialist movement for the advocacy for women's rights in w! hich they reject traditional religion. I highly doubt feminists can be ! actually religious, since they are more likely to be interested in non- institutional kinds of spirituality. They tend to dismiss religion as unimportant, and instead attracted to hollistic forms such as yoga. These set them up as gender equals, and hence why feminists like them.By the way, the Koran in the religion of Islam gives each and every person each and every right and no other religion gives rights equally to others. It doesn't permit violence against unbelievers or believers. Many Western countries portray them as violent, but the real concept of every religion is about actual equality, unlike feminism. In Arabic, the word Islam derives from the root word 'salama' which means to be at peace. A Muslim is a person who surrenders, submits and obeys the laws of God. In a Muslim kingdom, citizens are allowed to enjoy both private and public rights. Among the private rights, the most important is the right to safety which according to Islamic law is guaranteed to all in! habitants irrespective of race and religion.In traditional religion, women were treated as non-equals, however the concept of equality is more clear and accurate unlike feminism.
Gene Debell: Hattie: I'm waiting until I'm married to have sex. That is, unless I take a vow of celibacy at some point in my life.I've realized that there are more important things in life than pleasure. Much more important things.
Jose Calaycay: Religion naturalizes hypocrisy.
Kenneth Blacker: It is very easy. Religion can fit anyone, that follows it.
Marylee Lucks: Your view on Christianity and feminism may be narrow. Christian people can be extremely religious nut bags or mild mannered people who believe because it makes them feel better, and not be very religious at all. Feminist also run gambit from male hating/blaming spencer to women who believe they could make a diffrence in the world and just want the opportunity to do so. The hope and belief of an after life does! n't equal religious.
Alexis Reyer: At what age to guys start look! ing for decent, compatible women, instead of just random "hot girls" or girls who act like absolute b*tches? Same thing. Both sexes make bad choices in dating.
Hobert Dula: "How can you be a feminist and religious at the same time?"Feminism itself is a religion. It takes a great deal of faith and unwillingness to confront the facts just to maintain feminist beliefs.
Bethanie Menden: OMG where do i start!Cool guy 2 deserves a hotty 4 nothing so he can work his hole out trying to pay for her gym membership, hair, make up beautician, lunchs, dinners, girls night outs, botox and lipo for the rest of his life cos she isnt gunna have any skills but putting out for cash to support her self- (or a family) SUCKERS, f@#head! and Young housewives are fit, the Gym means Jack ****- You try walking up and down the yard putting washing out, washing, cleaning, folding, ironing, feeding, vaccuming, sweeping, entertaining, shopping & emotionally support a family & you wo! uld have walked around the house 347 times a day enough with no time for the gym.....Maybe if men were more supportive & didnt think work was there only chore (Not all men - Just selfish sexistist likeMr cool guy)Anyways, I totally agree with laura & it dweels, it isnt fair and it is cos of men, if men didnt see women that way there would be more wanting to have a family and less trying to be so materialistic and appearance orientated.i am 24, work part time, am a full time student and my partner has 3 boys so i know what it is like...... Sometime you do feel looked down upon, and it does take alot of stamina and strength (physically & mentally) to keep up with the demands and not lose your self ....... truthly i think you shouldnt worry about it so much because, in the long run those hotties 4 nothing are going to realise they have nothing in their life but stuff and things, they are going to lose as many partners as they have had years because the cash flow cant keep ! up with them and in 10- years they are going to be the ones being looke! d down on because they are still trying to be 20 odd instead of realising their age & that there is a purpose to life, happiness, love and health to gain not just hair, make up gossip and competitiveness!!!!!!!!Shut down- hussys! YOU GO GIRL, I LIKE YOUR THOUGHT and i know how your thinking., but i cant put it nicely. Nice Girls who can cook and clean are loved more by everyone better than gossipy girls in bike pants with hair extensions and lippy. Here here :)...Show more
Barrett Zheng: Cuz housewives dont exercise......Hotties get money cuz they can get a way with it.....I know it sucks but, If housewives hit the gym and look hot, theyd have it all........But they dont want to so its gonna be like that forever
Karl Jantzen: I agree with you 100%. However, house wives can be hotties too without being the whore type like some gold diggers.
Karey Dunken: I think your not looking at the right girls plus generalizing like that and being so judgemental ! is something girls arent really into. be strong be passionate, and above all be yourself, there is nothing a girl hates more than someone whos fake. just make sure your not being the a****** you claim hot girls only go for.
Toby Women: ]Well my opinion is that gold diggers seem to display more of an independent and exciting life.They are usually glamorous, and good looking., which doesn't hurt also. housewives, LIVE FOR THEIR FAMILY. you RARELY SEE THE PORTRAYED IN THE MEDIA AS INDEPENDENT OR sexy. But families who have a housewife, [I'm sure] appreciate her, because they know that the success of the house/household depends on her donig her job
Gus Leiby: That's life. See some men assume that once a woman becomes a housewife, she loses her backbone and such women become easy targets and scapegoats by the very men who wanted her to be in such a position in the first place.
Marcellus Yoshimori: I've found that a lot of people use the word religious as a sy! nonym for spiritual. They believe in God but don't follow most of the s! cripture of their particular chosen religion. It's possible to be *this* kind of religious and also a feminist, but you are right that most religions are incompatible with feminism.Having said that, it's possible to be a mild feminist who believes women deserve certain rights but not complete equality I guess?...Show more
Myron Leftwich: Dee and Kate: That's the thing!I am physically attractive.I've played sports my whole life, and I look just like my brother, who has ladies falling all over him. The only difference is that he's "cool guy" and I'm "romantic guy" And I'm tanner than he is.I write poety, play the trumpet, sing, am 5' 11" and 155 pounds, I'm bilingual. I got good grades, with a 28 on my ACT.The only thing that really separates me from other guys is that I have literally no temper....Show more
Roosevelt Pendill: It has a lot to do with the men really. They see t*ts and *ss, and thats all they think about. They don't care about the wife in line at! the grocery store carrying 2 screaming children....they care about the chick behind her with her fake t*ts hangin out...
Launa Weingarten: see above me, in typical fashion, feminists are blaming men for something they themselves have done.
Toby Caswell: I'm 18 right now. I've heard that they usually wait to find a nice guy until they get married.Why is it that they can be attracted to the "bad boys"(who will most likely end up being abusive husbands), then decide to marry the nice ones?As a nice guy, it just comes off as shallow to me, even though I know that can't actually be the case. I know women have the same morals as guys do, but I would never want to date one of the "hot girls."So why do they do it?...Show more
Jacques Vaquera: Housewives need the hotties. We are a visual group. If all men had was Conservative housewives to fantasize about housewives would not be getting any. We see and flirt with sexy hotties and get excited and run home to make! sex to our under appreciated wives. you should send a thank you note t! o a hottie next time your husband reames you into Ecstasy
Jonelle Eligio: OH, OKi tell you: Yes I am so dam tired of then freakin Hotties, with their insatiable, voracious sex appetite, coming all up in my place with their young friends enticing me into lurid sex games.IT PI55IES me off no end, I just wish they would just go away and leave me the HELLALONE.Tired, so tired they phone me, follow me, try to get me into their sports Ride, I’m FED-UP!!All I really want is a nice girl, who chats about housework and domestic priorities WHEN, oh when will these stupid HOT, HOT Gold Digging lasses LEARN THIS, WHEN?...Show more
Patrica Loertscher: Hey Stephen, its sad to say but lot of young women are more attracted to the bad guys. However, eventually most of these women will start looking for nice guys when they start loosing their good looks, get divorced, or turn into single moms. I always hear stories from young single moms in their 20s who say they want a nice guy! , the problem is no respectable guy would want them at that point. They're sloppy seconds by then. Just keep looking, you'll find a nice one eventually. Since your 18, you still have plenty of time, just concentrate on finishing college, get a good job and hopefully a girl will come along....Show more
Alphonso Brake: because in their teen years, girls want to have fun(just like guys). and the bad boy image makes the girls think that that guy knows how to have "fun". and they live that life until they realise that the "fun" is abusive and ultimately a dead end path in life. That is when they turn for the nice guys that will keep them out of trouble. nice guys and bad boys are wanted by women. just at different times. and its vice versa with daddys little girls and the naughty chicks. theres just exceptions too everything tho....Show more
Jacinta Moitoso: I think the Playboy Mansion Bunnies are to blame to be honest. Its cool to lounge around all day looking like ! them and spending your mans money, but if you are doing something worth! while (ie raising a family, keeping house), its seen as boring. Its just society. and its annoying!
Codi Manchel: Sure do. When mine is away on trips I also sleep in his. :)
Sonya Volcko: Certain jobs have always been looked down on. Jobs such as homemaking and also farming.
Charlotte Bryar: yeah i know, id otn look down on them. I do look down on gold digging slut though.
Brittanie Zakutney: All religious books were very progressive for their time, they progressed the rights for people of those times(inc. women). And if you read the Bible for example you also see a progression, and enlightenment happen throughout the course of it.Which tells you 2 things: 1, you can't compare what's written with the point of view now(because we're not coming out of an even darker age), it's a progression on what the point of view was then, and compared to back then, these Holy Books were 'bleeding heart liberal' laws.2, true religion has progressed, and is still pro! gressing.Most non-religious people tend to stereotype Religion as Traditionalism, and of course a lot of political-movements using religion as a tool, play that stereotype up, to win votes. Don't let them fool you though, that traditionalist-politics, not the actual religion.
Barrett Zheng: You just need to act a bit different around potential female mates. Pull yourself up to your full height and use dominant body language. Also act confident. Once you have seen her a couple of times, let the act diminish a bit.I once knew a girl who was very good looking and could not get a boyfriend. I told her to stop dressing up as much and wear jeans. She did and got a boyfriend within two weeks....Show more
Jannie Ariola: My ex left his old work shirts when he moved out. I use them to exercise in.
Jackson Esmiol: Most religions teach love which is contradictory to man-hating.
Virgil Menefee: i read somewhere that if housewives/ moms if they were to get paid fo! r there jobs they would be making over a 100 grand a year
Damaris! Weiler: Yes all the time (: I wear them around the house and to bed. I don't even wear normal pjs anymore. He's getting kind of annoyed that I don't wear my pjs anymore. He doesn't find this too..sexy haha.
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Katheryn Skrobacki: I continuously positioned on his shirts , somewhat those hes worn already (i understand sounds gross) yet i like his scent . i actually love wearing them to sleep because of the fact theyre so soft :)
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Tomi Vauters: I think you're erronated on this one.I think you also think a bit shallowy on this,too.Your statements show that you believe in stereotypes.Why do you assume that the "hot girls" are automatically evil people,bad people? And what do you mean by "nice guys"? This is all relative.There are many men who have both the traits of the "nice guy" stereotype and the "bad boy" stereotype.Because,in truth,these stereot! ypes don't really exist,as there are great variations of people around,and what you're doing is harshly generalize and put certain people into the same one little box.Your character doesn't show through how much you can read and how much you know and how successful you are academically.You compare yourself too much with other guys.That shows you're a bit insecure in your potential to attracting quality women.That's the only thing that keeps you away from reaching your goal/wishes.And you sound a bit c*cky.Learn a bit of modesty.Plus,you've got nothing to prove to anyone,and you don't have to prove anything to anyone.You are the way you are and you should show yourself the way you are.And as a result,there will be people(including women) who will appreciate you for the way you are and ones who won't care,because,well,you're prolly not their type.Don't get offended or descouraged if a girl overlooks you.There's nothing personal in that,it's just that you're just not what they! 're looking for and that's that.I'm pretty sure you've also got a few t! ypes of girls you prefer,I doubt you'd just take anyone,you need compatibility....Show more
Jackson Esmiol: I always were his shirt to sleep in and sometimes just around the house when I miss him. It makes me feel closer to him and I just like to.
Frederic Engellant: This sort of baffles me. I ve met feminists who happen to be devoutly religious, and I don t understand how a woman could be strongly religious, especially a feminist, when religion commonly places greater importance on men, restricts what women can do with their own bodies and consistently demeans them.Both the Bible and the Tenakh condone rape, claim women must be submissive to their husbands and the Koran says that Allah created men to be a degree above women. So how can women, let alone feminists, be for equality when they are a member of and promote sexist and misogynistic teachings and organisations?...Show more
Bob Pucella: You're special. Be happy for that. I also get down that I don'! t fit the confident hot girl persona but that's just not me. I'm more into poetry, music, education and travel. Actually I've always been on my own from my memory, it was always harder to find people with common ground. Just wait for university. In a higher level university there are people less concerned with who's hot and who's not. Because the truth is you're not the "romantic guy" or the "nice guy". Superficial and shallow people put that label on you. You're probably so much more complex.Those who seem so simple and usual are the real extraordinary ones.Be happy with how you are. You're different, and the average girl is much to shallow to understand this. There are girls looking for guys like you, so many, trust me. They're just a bit more reserved, a bit more mysterious, not just put out on the market like the average "hot girl". Just look a bit, you'll find your counterpart.And the best part is that your counterpart will probably be such a wonderful match. Most "hot! girls" and "hot guys" go into relationships just because of how damn h! ot they both are, a commonality not too valuable, in my opinion.PS: I'm 16 and interested in guys more of your type and I have been since 13 years old. There ARE girls out there that care about more than being hot. :)...Show more
Kenneth Blacker: I don't know exactly how you define a 'nice guy' but most girls prefer men who are nice. But not necessarily a man who is passive. Which is something a bit different. A woman doesn't necessarily want to be walked all over, but she will most likely want a man to show a bit of spirit.
Torrie Weissenbach: Absolutely. They smell so nice like his favorite cologne. Or his deodorant mixed with his body phermones. It's sooo sexy. And the shirt's comfortable too. I feel like he's with me or maybe like I'm in a piece of his skin.
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Tijuana Tatsak: They grew up religious and upon choosing a political philosophy, found Feminism to be religion's bossy little siste! r. So of course they pick Feminism.
